Since wife refuses sex after childbirth?

I had to read this twice before I understood what you were asking. I thought she'd had your child & months later, sill did not want to have sex but now I understand that you have some bizarre fantasy about having sex with a woman who's just given birth & is still in the hospital. Not only is it against hospital policy to have sex in rooms, it may also be considered a form of spousal or sexual abuse depending on where you live. This is also inherently DANGEROUS to her. Women aren't supposed to have sex for at least 6 weeks after birth because of the risk of infection. And I'm not talking about something minor, I'm talking about serious, two weeks in the hospital on i.v. meds & then having a D & C to scrape the bacteria out of the uterus infection. A serious infection after childbirth could render her infertile. Do you really want to risk that? Not to mention the fact that pain meds don't completely numb you. They turn off the epidural when its time to push & by the time labor is finished, its wearing off. I felt the stitches the doctor put in despite being on pain meds. SO.....why don't you actually try & educate yourself before you put what you want above someone's health & safety. And grow up, this doesn't give you the right to have an affair either, you jerk.